A temperamental tendency to be anxious, low self-efficacy, a great need for approval, and the inability to express your legitimate needs. These poisonous forces, plus a commitment to the thin ideal, may have produced this child’s eating disorder. Moreover, because whenever she feels bad about herself, she automatically thinks, “I’m too fat”—self-starvation has become her main mode of dealing with stress.

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