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THE FIRST TWO YEARS: |
Body and Mind |
Growth in Infancy
Body Size
Brain Development
A VIEW FROM SCIENCE: Face Recognition
Sleep
OPPOSING PERSPECTIVES: Where Should Babies Sleep?
Perceiving and Moving
The Senses
Motor Skills
Dynamic Sensory-
Surviving in Good Health
Better Days Ahead
Immunization
Nutrition
Infant Cognition
Sensorimotor Intelligence
Information Processing
Language
The Universal Sequence
Cultural Differences
How Do They Do It?
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Our first child, Bethany, was born when I was in graduate school. I studiously memorized developmental norms, including sitting at 6 months, and walking and talking at 12. But although Bethany had not yet taken her first step at 14 months, I was not worried. I told my husband that genes were more influential than anything we did. I had read that babies in Paris are among the latest walkers in the world, and my grandmother was French. My speculation was bolstered when our next two children, Rachel and Elissa, were also slow to walk.
Fourteen years after Bethany, Sarah was born. I could afford a fulltime caregiver, Mrs. Todd. She thought Sarah was the most advanced baby she had ever known, except for her own daughter, Gillian. I told her that Berger children walk late.
“She’ll be walking by a year,” Mrs. Todd told me. “Gillian walked at 10 months.”
“We’ll see,” I graciously replied, confident of my genetic explanation.
Mrs. Todd bounced my delighted baby on her lap, day after day, and spent hours giving her “walking practice.” Sarah’s first step was at 12 months, late for a Todd, early for a Berger, and a humbling lesson for me. ·
—Kathleen Berger
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AS A SCIENTIST, I KNOW THAT A SINGLE case proves nothing. Sarah shares only half her genes with Bethany. My daughters are only one-
Nonetheless, as you read about development, remember that caregiving enables babies to grow, move, and learn. Development is not as straightforward and automatic, nor as genetically determined, as it once seemed. It is multidirectional, multi-