ACTIVITIES

Interpersonal vs. Impersonal

Working with a partner, come up with your own definition of interpersonal communication based on how you use it daily. Include what distinguishes it from impersonal communication. Then, discuss how mediated forms of communication such as Twitter, e-mails, and texts can be interpersonal and when they can be impersonal. What makes the difference? Does the number of people impact whether an encounter is interpersonal? How? Come up with examples for each, and discuss how the technology can influence whether the communication is interpersonal or impersonal.

Love, Hollywood Style

Identify three of the most romantic movies you've seen (e.g., The Notebook, Love and Basketball, Love Actually, Brokeback Mountain). For each, assess how passionate love and companionate love are depicted. Is passionate love depicted as superior to companionate love? How do the movies deal with love over time? How do these depictions contrast with your own views of passionate and companionate love? What factors of loving and liking are shown, and which are ignored? What effect does this have on showing “real” romantic relationships in the movies?