WHAT IF?: Ending A Relationship
But what if things don’t work out as shown? Test your ability to adapt your communication by watching the What if? videos below and planning a response for each situation.
How would you counter Alex’s denial that there’s a problem in the relationship? “We’re just fine! I know we disagree a lot, but so what? You think other people don’t argue?”
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Chapter 9: How would you counter Alex’s denial that there’s a problem in the relationship? “We’re just fine! I know we disagree a lot, but so what? You think other people don’t argue?”
If Alex blames you for the failure of the relationship, and attacks you personally (“This is all your fault anyway! You never really gave us a chance, you know that?”), what would you say?
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Chapter 9: If Alex blames you for the failure of the relationship, and attacks you personally (“This is all your fault anyway! You never really gave us a chance, you know that?”), what would you say?