SOME THINGS ARE BETTER LEFT UNSAID
CONSIDER THE DILEMMA
As an active member of your campus community, you belong to several clubs and serve as a student representative to the college dean’s advisory council. You also volunteer as a peer mentor. In this role, you help guide first-
Though you are honored, you are also nervous, and you share your concerns with your friend Jack: “I’m not sure how I can keep the students interested in academic survival skills. Dr. Dawkins wants me to present for 15 to 20 minutes.”
“Just tell them about your first semester and what worked for you,” Jack advises.
“I can’t do that,” you reply. “My first semester was a disaster. I almost quit school.” When Jack asks you what happened, you reluctantly explain, “Well, it’s pretty embarrassing, but I was accused of plagiarizing a paper in my intro psych class. I didn’t give proper credit for my sources. It’s not that I didn’t want to; I just didn’t know how.”
“So, did you fail the class?” Jack asks.
“No,” you answer. “I got an F on the paper. But I learned to ask for help instead of making assumptions about how to do something. The professor took me under her wing. I ended up passing the course, and I actually changed my major to psychology.”
“Wow! That’s a powerful lesson. Why don’t you tell the students that story?” Jack suggests.
“Are you kidding me? Dr. Dawkins will be there. I don’t want him knowing that. Besides, I’m supposed to be teaching these students how to avoid getting into that kind of trouble.”
CONNECT THE RESEARCH
Self-
However, the kind of personal information you share matters. Researchers Pamela Lannutti and Elena Strauman (2006) found that students give high positive evaluations to teachers who self-
COMMUNICATE
Before making a communication choice, consider the facts of the situation, and think about the research on self-
How might the new students benefit from your personal story?
What risks do you take by including your personal narrative in the presentation? If you do not disclose the experience, how else might you engage your audience?
What will you say in your speech?