Table 7.2 Types of Love
|
Type |
Description |
Explanation |
Eros |
Beauty and sexuality |
Sex is the most important aspect of erotic love. This type of relationship is quite intense, both emotionally and physically, focusing on beauty and attractiveness. |
Ludus |
Entertainment and excitement |
Ludus means “play” in Latin, and the ludic lover views love as a game. Ludic love does not require great commitment. |
Storge |
Peacefulness and slowness |
Storge is a type of love that lacks passion and excitement. Storgic lovers often share common interests but rarely disclose any feelings about their relationship. |
Pragma |
Deed, task, work |
In Greek, pragma means “life work.” Pragmatic lovers are extremely logical and practical. They want a long-term relationship with someone who shares their goals in life. |
Mania |
Elation and depression |
This is the love that is often referred to as “romantic love.” It exhibits extreme feelings and is full of intense excitement, but it reaches a peak and then quickly fades away. |
Agape |
Compassion and selflessness |
In this type of love, the individual gives willingly and expects nothing in return. This type of lover can care for others without close ties; a deep relationship is not necessary for agapic love to develop. |