Learning to Be a Supportive Friend College students contemplating suicide often turn first to a friend or roommate rather than seeking professional help or confiding in an adult (Drum & others, 2009). Many colleges and universities have trained students to help other students who seem to be in distress. If a friend is despondent, you can help by listening empathically, expressing your understanding and compassion, and if necessary, referring him or her to a counselor or suicide prevention resource.
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