Sex is not like hunger, because it is not an actual need. (Without it, we may feel like dying, but we will not.) Yet sex is a part of life. Had this not been so for all your ancestors, you would not be reading this book. Sexual motivation is nature’s clever way of making people procreate, thus enabling our species’ survival. When we feel an attraction, we hardly stop to think of ourselves as guided by ancestral genes. We may crave our partner’s presence, with a brain response similar to when someone struggles with an alcohol craving (Acevedo et al., 2012). As the pleasure we take in eating is nature’s method of getting our body nourishment, so the desires and pleasures of sex are our genes’ way of preserving and spreading themselves. Life is sexually transmitted.
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estrogens sex hormones, such as estradiol, secreted in greater amounts by females than by males and contributing to female sex characteristics. In nonhuman female mammals, estrogen levels peak during ovulation, promoting sexual receptivity.
Among the forces driving sexual behavior are the sex hormones. The main male sex hormone, as we saw earlier, is testosterone. The main female sex hormones are the estrogens, such as estradiol. Sex hormones influence us at many points in the life span:
During the prenatal period, they direct our development as males or females.
During puberty, a sex hormone surge ushers us into adolescence.
After puberty and well into the late adult years, sex hormones activate sexual behavior.
In most mammals, nature neatly synchronizes sex with fertility. Females become sexually receptive (in nonhumans, “in heat”) when their estrogens peak at ovulation. In experiments, researchers can cause female animals to become receptive by injecting them with estrogens. Male hormone levels are more constant, and hormone injection does not so readily affect the sexual behavior of male animals (Feder, 1984). Nevertheless, male rats that have had their testosterone-
Hormones do influence human sexual behavior, but in a looser way. Researchers are exploring and debating whether women’s mate preferences change across the menstrual cycle (Gildersleeve et al., 2014; Wood et al., 2014). Some evidence suggests that, among women with mates, sexual desire rises slightly at ovulation, when there is a surge of estrogens and a smaller surge of testosterone—
Women have much less testosterone than men do. And more than other mammalian females, women are responsive to their testosterone level (van Anders, 2012). If a woman’s natural testosterone level drops, as happens with removal of the ovaries or adrenal glands, her sexual interest may wane. But as experiments with hundreds of surgically or naturally menopausal women have demonstrated, testosterone-
In human males with abnormally low testosterone levels, testosterone-
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Large hormonal surges or declines affect men and women’s desire in shifts that tend to occur at two predictable points in the life span, and sometimes at an unpredictable third point:
The pubertal surge in sex hormones triggers the development of sex characteristics and sexual interest. If the hormonal surge is precluded—
In later life, hormone levels fall. Women experience menopause, males a more gradual change. As sex hormone levels decline, sex remains a part of life, but the frequency of sexual fantasies and intercourse subsides (Leitenberg & Henning, 1995).
For some, surgery or drugs may cause hormonal shifts. When adult men were castrated, sex drive typically fell as testosterone levels declined sharply (Hucker & Bain, 1990). Male sex offenders who take Depo-
To summarize: We might compare human sex hormones, especially testosterone, to the fuel in a car. Without fuel, a car will not run. But if the fuel level is minimally adequate, adding more fuel to the gas tank won’t change how the car runs. The analogy is imperfect, because hormones and sexual motivation interact. However, it correctly suggests that biology is a necessary but not sufficient explanation of human sexual behavior. The hormonal fuel is essential, but so are the psychological stimuli that turn on the engine, keep it running, and shift it into high gear.
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sexual response cycle the four stages of sexual responding described by Masters and Johnson—
The scientific process often begins with careful observations of complex behaviors. When gynecologist-
refractory period a resting period after orgasm, during which a man cannot achieve another orgasm.
Excitement The genital areas become engorged with blood, causing a woman’s clitoris and a man’s penis to swell. A woman’s vagina expands and secretes lubricant; her breasts and nipples may enlarge.
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Plateau Excitement peaks as breathing, pulse, and blood pressure rates continue to increase. A man’s penis becomes fully engorged—
Orgasm Muscle contractions appear all over the body and are accompanied by further increases in breathing, pulse, and blood pressure rates. A woman’s arousal and orgasm facilitate conception: They help draw semen from the penis, position the uterus to receive sperm, and carry the sperm further inward, increasing retention (Furlow & Thornhill, 1996). The pleasurable feeling of sexual release is much the same for both sexes. One panel of experts could not reliably distinguish between descriptions of orgasm written by men and those written by women (Vance & Wagner, 1976). In another study, PET scans showed that the same subcortical brain regions were active in men and women during orgasm (Holstege et al., 2003a,b).
Resolution The body gradually returns to its unaroused state as the genital blood vessels release their accumulated blood. This happens relatively quickly if orgasm has occurred, relatively slowly otherwise. (It’s like the nasal tickle that goes away rapidly if you have sneezed, slowly otherwise.) Men then enter a refractory period that lasts from a few minutes to a day or more, during which they are incapable of another orgasm. A woman’s much shorter refractory period may enable her, if restimulated during or soon after resolution, to have more orgasms.
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sexual dysfunction a problem that consistently impairs sexual arousal or functioning.
erectile disorder inability to develop or maintain an erection due to insufficient bloodflow to the penis.
female orgasmic disorder distress due to infrequently or never experiencing orgasm.
Masters and Johnson sought not only to describe the human sexual response cycle but also to understand and treat the inability to complete it. Sexual dysfunctions are problems that consistently impair sexual arousal or functioning. Some involve sexual motivation, especially lack of sexual energy and arousability. For men, others include erectile disorder (inability to have or maintain an erection) and premature ejaculation. For women, the problem may be pain or female orgasmic disorder (distress over infrequently or never experiencing orgasm). In separate surveys of some 3000 Boston women and 32,000 other American women, about 4 in 10 reported a sexual problem, such as orgasmic disorder or low desire, but only about 1 in 8 reported that this caused personal distress (Lutfey et al., 2009; Shifren et al., 2008). Most women who have experienced sexual distress have related it to their emotional relationship with their partner during sex (Bancroft et al., 2003).
Therapy can help men and women with sexual dysfunctions (Frühauf et al., 2013). In behaviorally oriented therapy, for example, men learn ways to control their urge to ejaculate, and women are trained to bring themselves to orgasm. Starting with the introduction of Viagra in 1998, erectile disorder has been routinely treated by taking a pill. Some more modestly effective drug treatments for female sexual interest/arousal disorder are also available.
paraphilias sexual arousal from fantasies, behaviors, or urges involving nonhuman objects, the suffering of self or others, and/or nonconsenting persons.
Sexual dysfunction involves problems with arousal or sexual functioning. People with paraphilias do experience sexual desire, but they direct it in unusual ways. The American Psychiatric Association (2013) only classifies such behavior as disordered if
a person experiences distress from an unusual sexual interest or
it entails harm or risk of harm to others.
The serial killer Jeffrey Dahmer had necrophilia, a sexual attraction to corpses. Those with exhibitionism derive pleasure from exposing themselves sexually to others, without consent. People with the paraphilic disorder pedophilia experience sexual arousal toward children who haven’t entered puberty.
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Every day, more than 1 million people worldwide acquire a sexually transmitted infection (STI; also called STD for sexually transmitted disease) (WHO, 2013). Teenage girls, because of their not yet fully mature biological development and lower levels of protective antibodies, are especially vulnerable (Dehne & Riedner, 2005; Guttmacher, 1994). A Centers for Disease Control study of sexually experienced 14-
To comprehend the mathematics of infection transmission, imagine this scenario. Over the course of a year, Pat has sex with 9 people, each of whom, by that point in time, has had sex with the same number of partners as has Pat. How many partners—
Condoms offer only limited protection against certain skin-
AIDS (acquired immune deficiency syndrome) a life-
Across the available studies, condoms also have been 80 percent effective in preventing transmission of HIV (human immunodeficiency virus—the virus that causes AIDS) from an infected partner (Weller & Davis-
Most Americans with AIDS have been in midlife and younger—
Many people assume that oral sex falls in the category of “safe sex,” but recent studies show a significant link between oral sex and transmission of STIs, such as the human papillomavirus (HPV). Risks rise with the number of sexual partners (Gillison et al., 2012). Most HPV infections can now be prevented with a vaccination administered before sexual contact.
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