As you learn in Chapter 16, persuasive speaking is an attempt to influence others’ attitudes, beliefs, or behaviors. It may seem as though the speaker has all of the control in the speaking situation, but this isn’t the case. The audience members can exert influence on the speaker through a variety of nonverbal cues (like eye contact and facial expressions) that may cause the speaker to alter his or her behavior.
Most communication is influential in one way or another. Some influence is intentional: a politician uses gestures strategically during a press conference to shape how voters perceive her. Other influence is unintentional: Michaela’s lack of eye contact during an after-
The ability of one person, group, or organization to influence others and the way in which their interactions are conducted is called control. Unlike affection, which you can give and receive infinitely, control is finite: the more control one person has in a relationship or situation, the less the others tend to have. Distribution of control is worked out through communication—
The amount of control you have over others or that they have over you varies depending on the situation and each person’s status. Sometimes control shifts from one party to another. For example, as a new bank employee, Manny looks to his manager, Alexis, for direction and advice about how to do his job well. The unequal control distribution is appropriate and meets Manny’s and Alexis’s expectations of their job responsibilities. But as Manny becomes more comfortable in the job, he will likely take more control, and Alexis will let him work more independently. This redistribution of control is a natural process.