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Checking Your Perception
The final way to improve your perception is, as Malcolm X put it, to “rearrange your thought-patterns” and “toss aside previous conclusions” when they prove to be wrong. This is accomplished through perception-checking, a five-step process in which you apply all that you’ve learned in this chapter to your perception of others.
Perception-checking is an intense mental exercise. Mastering it takes time and effort, but the ability to critically check your own perception goes, as Malcolm X wrote, “hand in hand with every form of intelligent search for truth,” whether the truth is personal, interpersonal, or universal. When you routinely perception-check, errors are corrected and perception becomes more accurate, balanced, and objective. As a result, you will make fewer communication blunders, and you will be able to tailor your communication to people as they really are, making your messages more sensitive and effective. The ultimate result will also be perceptual: others seeing you as a competent communicator.