| “You” Language | “I” Language |
|---|---|
| You make me so angry! | I'm feeling so angry! |
| You totally messed things up. | I feel like things are totally messed up. |
| You need to do a better job. | I think this job needs to be done better. |
| You really hurt my feelings. | I'm feeling really hurt. |
| You never pay any attention to me. | I feel like I never get any attention. |