About Reflect & Relate

Preface

Acknowledgments

About the Author

Chapter 1: Introducing Interpersonal Communication

Introduction to Chapter 1

What Is Communication?

What Is Interpersonal Communication?

Motives for Interpersonal Communication

Research in Interpersonal Communication

What Is Interpersonal Communication Competence?

Self-Quiz: Test Your Self-Monitoring

Improving Your Competence Online

Issues in Interpersonal Communication

Self-Quiz: The Dark Side of Interpersonal Relationships

The Journey Ahead

Making Relationship Choices with Video: Dealing with a Difficult Friend

Chapter 1 Review

Chapter 1 Multiple-Choice Quiz

Chapter 1 True/False Quiz

Chapter 1 Journal Entry

Chapter 2: Considering Self

Introduction to Chapter 2

The Components of Self

Self-Quiz: Test Your Self-Concept Clarity

The Sources of Self

Presenting Your Self

The Relational Self

Self-Quiz: Discover Your Attachment Style

Disclosing Your Self to Others

Improving Your Self

Making Relationship Choices with Video: Workplace Self-Disclosure

Chapter 2 Review

Chapter 2 Multiple-Choice Quiz

Chapter 2 True/False Quiz

Chapter 2 Journal Entry

Chapter 3: Perceiving Others

Introduction to Chapter 3

Perception as a Process

Influences on Perception

Self-Quiz: What Kind of Personality Do You Have?

Forming Impressions of Others

Improving Your Perception of Others

Self-Quiz: Test Your Empathy

Practicing Responsible Perception

Making Relationship Choices with Video: Balancing Impressions and Empathy

Chapter 3 Review

Chapter 3 Multiple-Choice Quiz

Chapter 3 True/False Quiz

Chapter 3 Journal Entry

Chapter 4: Experiencing and Expressing Emotions

Introduction to Chapter 4

The Nature of Emotion

Feelings and Moods

Forces Shaping Emotion

Managing Your Emotional Experience and Expression

Self-Quiz: Assessing Your Emotional Intelligence

Emotional Challenges

Self-Quiz: Test Your Chronic Hostility

Passion and Grief

Living a Happy Emotional Life

Making Relationship Choices with Video: Managing Anger and Providing Support

Chapter 4 Review

Chapter 4 Multiple-Choice Quiz

Chapter 4 True/False Quiz

Chapter 4 Journal Entry

Chapter 5: Understanding Culture

Introduction to Chapter 5

What Is Culture?

Co-Cultures

Cultural Influences on Communication

Self-Quiz: Collectivism, Uncertainty Avoidance, and Power Distance

Emotion Displays, Masculinity Versus Femininity, and Views of Time

Creating Intercultural Competence

Embracing Difference

Self-Quiz: Are You World-Minded or Ethnocentric?

Making Relationship Choices with Video: Parent-Child Culture Clash

Chapter 5 Review

Chapter 5 Multiple-Choice Quiz

Chapter 5 True/False Quiz

Chapter 5 Journal Entry

Chapter 6: Listening Actively

Introduction to Chapter 6

Listening: A Five-Step Process

Self-Quiz: Multitasking and Attention

Responding and Recalling

The Five Functions of Listening

Understanding Listening Styles

Self-Quiz: Discover Your Listening Styles

Preventing Incompetent Listening

The Gift of Active Listening

Making Relationship Choices with Video: Listening When You Don't Want To

Chapter 6 Review

Chapter 6 Multiple-Choice Quiz

Chapter 6 True/False Quiz

Chapter 6 Journal Entry

Chapter 7: Communicating Verbally

Introduction to Chapter 7

Characteristics of Verbal Communication

Functions of Verbal Communication

Performing Actions, Crafting Conversations, and Maintaining Relationships

Cooperative Verbal Communication

Self-Quiz: Test Your Knowledge of Conversational Patterns

Barriers to Cooperative Verbal Communication

Self-Quiz: Test Your Deception Acceptance

The Power of Verbal Communication

Making Relationship Choices with Video: Dealing with Difficult Truths

Chapter 7 Review

Chapter 7 Multiple-Choice Quiz

Chapter 7 True/False Quiz

Chapter 7 Journal Entry

Chapter 8: Communicating Nonverbally

Introduction to Chapter 8

Principles of Nonverbal Communication

Nonverbal Communication Codes

Self-Quiz: Reading Facial Expressions

Communicating through Touch

Functions of Nonverbal Communication

Self-Quiz: Test Your Nonverbal Dominance Knowledge

Competently Managing Your Nonverbal Communication

Making Relationship Choices with Video: Dealing with Mixed Messages

Chapter 8 Review

Chapter 8 Multiple-Choice Quiz

Chapter 8 True/False Quiz

Chapter 8 Journal Entry

Chapter 9: Managing Conflict and Power

Introduction to Chapter 9

Conflict and Interpersonal Communication

Power and Conflict

Handling Conflict

Self-Quiz: How Do You Approach Conflict?

Gender, Culture, and Technology and Handling Conflict

Conflict Endings

Challenges to Handling Conflict

Self-Quiz: Test Your Understanding of Destructive Thoughts

Managing Conflict and Power

Making Relationship Choices with Video: Dealing with Family Conflict

Chapter 9 Review

Chapter 9 Multiple-Choice Quiz

Chapter 9 True/False Quiz

Chapter 9 Journal Entry

Chapter 10: Relationships with Romantic Partners

Introduction to Chapter 10

Defining Romantic Relationships

Self-Quiz: Test Your Love Attitudes

Key Elements of Romantic Relationships

Romantic Attraction

Relationship Development and Deterioration

Maintaining Romantic Relationships

Maintaining Romance Across Distance

The Dark Side of Romantic Relationships

Self-Quiz: How Often Do You Betray Romantic Partners?

Jealousy, Relational Intrusion, and Dating Violence

The Hard Work of Successful Love

Making Relationship Choices with Video: Managing Jealousy about a Partner's Ex

Chapter 10 Review

Chapter 10 Multiple-Choice Quiz

Chapter 10 True/False Quiz

Chapter 10 Journal Entry

Chapter 11: Relationships with Family Members

Introduction to Chapter 11

Defining Family

Family Stories

Communicating in Families

Self-Quiz: What Communication Pattern Does Your Family Have?

Maintaining Family Relationships

Dealing with Family Dialectics

Family Relationship Challenges

Self-Quiz: How Much Family Favoritism Exists?

The Primacy of Family

Making Relationship Choices with Video: Struggling with Family Transitions

Chapter 11 Review

Chapter 11 Multiple-Choice Quiz

Chapter 11 True/False Quiz

Chapter 11 Journal Entry

Chapter 12: Relationships with Friends

Introduction to Chapter 12

The Nature of Friendship

Types of Friendships

Self-Quiz: What Kind of Friend Are You?

Maintaining Friendships

Friendship Challenges

Self-Quiz: Friendship-Distance Durability

Attraction: Romance and FWB Relationships

The Importance of Friends

Making Relationship Choices with Video: Choosing between Friends

Chapter 12 Review

Chapter 12 Multiple-Choice Quiz

Chapter 12 True/False Quiz

Chapter 12 Journal Entry

Appendix: Relationships in the Workplace

The Nature of Workplace Relationships

Organizational Climates and Technology

Peer Relationships

Self-Quiz: Test Your Maintenance of Peer Relationships

Mixed-Status Relationships

Challenges to Workplace Relationships

Self-Quiz: Test Your Perception of Sexual Harassment

Workplace Relationships and Human Happiness

Appendix Review

Appendix Multiple-Choice Quiz

Appendix True/False Quiz

Appendix Journal Entry

Glossary

Glossary

Video Quizzes

Adaptors

Assimilation

Collectivistic Culture

High-Context Culture

High Human Contact

High Power Distance

ā€œIā€ Language

Individualistic Culture

Low-Context Culture

Low Human Contact

Low Power Distance

Social Comparison Theory