Rather than trying to understand personality in terms of broad theories for describing individual differences, Freud looked for personality in the details: the meanings and insights revealed by careful analysis of the tiniest blemishes in a person’s thought and behavior. Working with patients who came to him with disorders that did not seem to have any physical basis, he began by interpreting the origins of their everyday mistakes and memory lapses, errors that have come to be called Freudian slips.
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The theories of Freud and his followers (discussed in the Treatment chapter) are referred to as the psychodynamic approach, an approach that regards personality as formed by needs, strivings, and desires largely operating outside of awareness—
An approach that regards personality as formed by needs, strivings, and desires largely operating outside of awareness—
To explain the emotional difficulties that beset his patients, Freud proposed that the mind consists of three independent, interacting, and often conflicting systems: the id, the superego, and the ego.
The most basic system, the id, is the part of the mind containing the drives present at birth; it is the source of our bodily needs, wants, desires, and impulses, particularly our sexual and aggressive drives. The id operates according to the pleasure principle, the psychic force that motivates the tendency to seek immediate gratification of any impulse. If governed by the id alone, you would never be able to tolerate the build-
The part of the mind containing the drives present at birth; it is the source of our bodily needs, wants, desires, and impulses, particularly our sexual and aggressive drives.
Opposite the id is the superego, the mental system that reflects the internalization of cultural rules, mainly learned as parents exercise their authority. The superego acts as a kind of conscience, punishing us when it finds we are doing or thinking something wrong (by producing guilt or other painful feelings) and rewarding us (with feelings of pride or self-
The mental system that reflects the internalization of cultural rules, mainly learned as parents exercise their authority.
The final system of the mind, according to psychoanalytic theory, is the ego, the component of personality, developed through contact with the external world, that enables us to deal with life’s practical demands. The ego is a regulating mechanism that enables the individual to delay gratifying immediate needs and function effectively in the real world. It is the mediator between the id and the superego. The ego helps you resist the impulse to snatch others’ food and also chooses the restaurant and pays the check.
The component of personality, developed through contact with the external world, that enables us to deal with life’s practical demands.
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According to Freud, how is personality shaped by the interaction of the id, superego, and ego?
Freud believed that the relative strength of the interactions among the three systems of mind (i.e., which system is usually dominant) determines an individual’s basic personality structure. He believed that the dynamics among the id, superego, and ego are largely governed by anxiety, an unpleasant feeling that arises when unwanted thoughts or feelings occur, such as when the id seeks a gratification that the ego thinks will lead to real-
Unconscious coping mechanisms that reduce anxiety generated by threats from unacceptable impulses.
Repression is the first defense the ego tries, but if it is inadequate, then other defense mechanisms may come into play. |
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Defense mechanism |
Description |
Example |
Repression |
Removing painful experiences and unacceptable impulses from the conscious mind: “motivated forgetting.” |
Not lashing out physically in anger; putting a bad experience out of your mind. |
Rationalization |
Supplying a reasonable sounding explanation for unacceptable feelings and behavior to conceal (mostly from oneself) one’s underlying motives or feelings. |
Dropping calculus “allegedly” because of poor ventilation in the classroom. |
Reaction formation |
Unconsciously replacing threatening inner wishes and fantasies with an exaggerated version of their opposite. |
Being rude to someone you’re attracted to. |
Projection |
Attributing one’s own threatening feelings, motives, or impulses to another person or group. |
Judging others as being dishonest because you believe that you are dishonest. |
Regression |
Reverting to an immature behavior or earlier stage of development, a time when things felt more secure, to deal with internal conflict and perceived threat. |
Using baby talk, even though able to use appropriate speech, in response to distress. |
Displacement |
Shifting unacceptable wishes or drives to a neutral or less threatening alternative |
Slamming a door; yelling at someone other than the person you’re mad at. |
Identification |
Dealing with feelings of threat and anxiety by unconsciously taking on the characteristics of another person who seems more powerful or better able to cope. |
A bullied child becoming a bully. |
Sublimation |
Channeling unacceptable sexual or aggressive drives into socially acceptable and culturally enhancing activities. |
Diverting anger to the football or rugby field, or other contact sport. |
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Freud also proposed that a person’s basic personality is formed before 6 years of age during a series of sensitive periods, or life stages, when experiences influence all that will follow. Freud called these periods psychosexual stages, distinct early life stages through which personality is formed as children experience sexual pleasures from specific body areas and caregivers redirect or interfere with those pleasures.
A phenomenon in which a person’s pleasure-
Distinct early life stages through which personality is formed as children experience sexual pleasures from specific body areas and caregivers redirect or interfere with those pleasures.
Problems and conflicts encountered at any psychosexual stage, Freud believed, will influence personality in adulthood. Conflict resulting from a person’s being deprived or, paradoxically, overindulged at a given stage could result in fixation, a phenomenon in which a person’s pleasure-
A phenomenon in which a person’s pleasure-
In the 1st year and a half of life, the infant is in the oral stage, the first psychosexual stage, in which experience centers on the pleasures and frustrations associated with the mouth, sucking, and being fed. Infants who are deprived of pleasurable feeding or indulgently overfed are believed to have a personality style in which they are focused on issues related to fullness and emptiness and what they can “take in” from others.
The first psychosexual stage, in which experience centers on the pleasures and frustrations associated with the mouth, sucking, and being fed.
Between 2 and 3 years of age, the child moves on to the anal stage, the second psychosexual stage, in which experience is dominated by the pleasures and frustrations associated with the anus, retention and expulsion of feces and urine, and toilet training. Individuals who have had difficulty negotiating this conflict are believed to develop a rigid personality and remain preoccupied with issues of control.
The second psychosexual stage, in which experience is dominated by the pleasures and frustrations associated with the anus, retention and expulsion of feces and urine, and toilet training.
Between the ages of 3 and 5 years, the child is in the phallic stage, the third psychosexual stage, in which experience is dominated by the pleasure, conflict, and frustration associated with the phallic-
The third psychosexual stage, in which experience is dominated by the pleasure, conflict, and frustration associated with the phallic-
A developmental experience in which a child’s conflicting feelings toward the opposite-
Between the ages of 5 and 13, children experience the latency stage, the fourth psychosexual stage, in which the primary focus is on the further development of intellectual, creative, interpersonal, and athletic skills. Because Freud believed that the most significant aspects of personality development occur before the age of 6 years, simply making it to the latency period relatively undisturbed by conflicts of the earlier stages is a sign of healthy personality development.
The fourth psychosexual stage, in which the primary focus is on the further development of intellectual, creative, interpersonal, and athletic skills.
At puberty and thereafter, the genital stage is the fifth and final psychosexual stage, the time for the coming together of the mature adult personality with a capacity to love, work, and relate to others in a mutually satisfying and reciprocal manner. Freud believed that people who are fixated in a prior stage fail to develop healthy adult sexuality and a well-
The fifth and final psychosexual stage, the time for the coming together of the mature adult personality with a capacity to love, work, and relate to others in a mutually satisfying and reciprocal manner.
Why do critics say Freud’s psychosexual stages are more interpretation than explanation?
What should we make of all this? On the one hand, the psychoanalytic theory of psychosexual stages offers an intriguing picture of early family relationships and the extent to which they allow the child to satisfy basic needs and wishes. On the other hand, critics argue that psychodynamic explanations lack any real evidence and tend to focus on provocative after-
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1. | Which of Freud’s systems of the mind would impel you to, if hungry, start grabbing food off people’s plates upon entering a restaurant? |
a.
2. | After performing poorly on an exam, you drop a class, saying that you and the professor are just a poor match. According to Freud, what defense mechanism are you employing? |
b.
3. | According to Freud, a person who is preoccupied with control over possessions, money, and people, as well as concerns about cleanliness versus messiness, is fixated at which psychosexual stage? |
b.