00:01 [ONSCREEN] Self-monitoring

00:06 [DANNY stands at a water cooler getting a drink. MAN enters and puts his arms on DANNY's back, causing DANNY to spill water.] MAN: Danny!!!! What's going on?

00:11 DANNY: Uh, not much, man. How you doing?

00:13 MAN: Alright, man! What's going on, what's going on? Plans for the weekend?

00:16 DANNY: Um...yeah, actually, I have a lot of plans.

00:19 [interrupting DANNY] MAN: Go for it, go for it, tell me, tell me!

00:20 DANNY: Um, well, I'm hanging out with my girlfriend, and…

00:22 [simultaneous with above line] MAN: Uh huh, uh huh, uh huh! The game tomorrow?

00:26 DANNY: Uh, yeah, maybe I'll watch the game.

00:27 MAN: Yeah? Alright, how about you bring over the girlfriend, we'll all -- all three of us will watch the game. It'll be a great time.

00:34 DANNY: Yeah, I don't really know if she's…

00:35 MAN: Yes, yes, yes! Come, dude, I'll have popcorn, I'll have chips. Uh, candy, Cheez Whiz, whatever your girlfriend likes.

00:43 DANNY: She's not really into watching sports, actually.

00:46 MAN: Cheez Whiz? I went off on the Cheez Whiz?

00:48 DANNY: No.

00:49 MAN: Sushi! We'll get sushi. We'll get sushi, it'll be great. Come on! You'll love it. You'll love it. You'll love it. [MAN puts his hands on DANNY's shoulders] Get out of here, get back to work, do a good job. Get out early, and we can meet up. Alright?

01:00 DANNY: Yeah, maybe.

01:00 MAN: Yeah? Alright, cool. Good, good. [DANNY leaves] You're such a cool guy. Oh! Aw, man, it's gonna be a great time. Woo! [gets cup of water and leaves]

01:14 [ONSCREEN] Self-monitoring: The process of observing your own communication and the norms of the situation in order to make appropriate communication choices.