Language that shows respect for differences and builds common ground can help persuade readers. Few absolute guidelines exist for using such language, but two general rules can help: consider the sensitivities and preferences of others, and watch for words that carry stereotypes and betray your assumptions, even though you have not directly stated them.
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Avoiding stereotypes and generalizations
Avoiding assumptions about gender
Avoiding assumptions about race and ethnicity
Considering other kinds of difference