Table 5.2 How People Touch
Type of Contact Purpose Intimacy Type
Handshake Forming relational ties Social-polite
Body guide A substitute for pointing Social-polite
Pat A congratulatory gesture but sometimes meant as a condescending or sexual one Social-polite or sexual-arousal
Arm link Used for support or to indicate a close relationship Friendship-warmth
Shoulder embrace Signifies friendship; can also signify romantic connectiveness Friendship-warmth
Full embrace Shows emotional response or relational closeness Friendship-warmth
Hand in hand Equality in an adult relationship Friendship-warmth
Mock attack An aggressive behavior performed in a nonaggressive manner, such as a pinch meant to convey playfulness Friendship-warmth
Waist embrace Indicates intimacy Love-intimacy
Kiss Signals a degree of closeness or the desire for closeness Love-intimacy or sexual-arousal
Caress Normally used by romantic partners; signals intimacy Love-intimacy or sexual-arousal
Body support Touching used as physical support Love-intimacy

Source: Leathers (1986). Adapted with permission.