Emotional Intelligence and College Success

A number of studies link strong EI skills to college success in particular. Here are a few highlights:

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Without strong EI in college, it’s possible to simply get by. You might, however, miss out on the full range and depth of competencies and skills that can help you succeed in your chosen field.

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Patience Is a Virtue Delaying gratification when you really want something is tough for people of all ages, but sometimes postponing your desires is the right thing to do. Delaying things you can’t afford or don’t have time for will help you reach your long-term goals.

THE STANFORD MARSHMALLOW STUDY

Impulse Controlled Impulsive
Assertive Indecisive
Cope with frustration Overreact to frustration
Work better under pressure Overwhelmed by stress
Self-reliant, confident Lower self-image
Trustworthy Stubborn
Dependable Impulsive
Delay gratification Don’t delay gratification
Academically competent Poorer students
Respond to reason Prone to jealousy and envy
Concentrate Provoke arguments
Eager to learn Sharp temper
Follow through on plans Give up in face of failure
SAT: 610 verbal, 652 math SAT: 524 verbal, 528 math

Source: Y. Shoda, W. Mischel, and P. K. Peake, “Predicting Adolescent Cognitive and Self-Regulatory Competencies from Preschool Delay of Gratification,” Developmental Psychology 26, no. 6 (1990): 978–86.