You know that students at your large state school come from all kinds of backgrounds and circumstances. You also know that you have it easier than some and you try not to resent those who seem to have it easier than you. But your new roommate, Cameron, is beginning to frustrate you. Although you both think of yourselves as “ordinary middle-class guys,” it’s becoming clear that he comes from a more privileged background than do you. While you are taking out loans, along with help from your parents, to pay your tuition, Cameron’s tuition is paid in full up front. And he is the only one of your friends who doesn’t have a part-time job during the school year; his parents supply him with spending money on a regular basis.
He’s a really nice guy, and you share a lot of the same interests, but he continues to suggest excursions—such as eating out or going to concerts—that you just can’t afford. When he notes that your favorite band is playing the local arena next weekend and that tickets are “only $75,” you feel jealous and angry that he could be so clueless. What do you do?