Call to mind your current or most recent romantic partner. If you haven’t yet had a “romantic” relationship, think about how you would feel if you were in such a relationship. Then read the statements below, and place a check mark next to the ones with which you agree.

Storge It is hard to say exactly where friendship ends and love begins. Love is really a deep friendship, not a mysterious, mystical emotion. Agape When my lover gets angry with me, I still love him/her fully and unconditionally. I would rather suffer myself than let my lover suffer. Mania Sometimes I get so excited about being in love that I can’t sleep. When my lover doesn’t pay attention to me, I feel sick all over.

Pragma I try to plan my life carefully before choosing a lover. I consider what a person is going to become in life before I commit myself to him/her. Ludus I try to keep my lover a little uncertain about my commitment to him/her. I enjoy playing the “game of love” with a number of different partners. Eros My lover and I have the right physical “chemistry” between us. I feel that my lover and I were meant for each other.