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Dirk Willems faced a moment of decision in 1569. Threatened with torture and death as a member of a persecuted religious minority, he escaped from his Asperen, Holland, prison and fled across an ice-covered pond. His stronger and heavier jailer pursued him but fell through the ice and, unable to climb out, pled for help.

With his freedom in front of him, Willems acted with ultimate selflessness. He turned back and rescued his pursuer, who, under orders, took him back to captivity. A few weeks later Willems was condemned to be “executed with fire, until death ensues.” For his martyrdom, present-day Asperen has named a street in honor of its folk hero (Toews, 2004).

What drives people to feel contempt for religious minorities such as Dirk Willems, and to act so spitefully? What inspires people, such as his jailer, to carry out unfair orders? And what motivated the selflessness of Willems’ response, and of so many who have died trying to save others? Indeed, what motivates any of us when we volunteer kindness and generosity toward others?

As such examples demonstrate, we are social animals. We may assume the best or the worst in others. We may approach them with closed fists or open arms. As the novelist Herman Melville remarked, “We cannot live for ourselves alone. Our lives are connected by a thousand invisible threads.” Social psychologists explore these connections by scientifically studying how we think about, influence, and relate to one another. Social Thinking (Module 42) asks, How do we explain people’s behavior? How do we form our beliefs and attitudes? What is the relationship between what we think and what we do? Social Influence (Module 43) asks, What invisible threads pull us? How strong are they? How do they operate? Antisocial Relations (Module 44) asks, What makes us harm others? And Prosocial Relations (Module 45) asks: Why do we fall in love? and What can we do to transform the closed fists of aggression into the open arms of compassion?