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Social Development
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Infancy: Using Caregivers as a Base for Growth
Helping, Comforting, and Learning from Others in Childhood
Parenting Styles
The Roles of Play and Gender in Development
Adolescence: Breaking Out of the Cocoon
Adulthood: Finding Satisfaction in Love and Work
Reflections and Connections
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The natural human environment is a social environment. We are adapted to survive with the help of others. Natural selection has endowed us with brain mechanisms that enable us to make the kinds of connections with other people—at each stage in our lives—that are essential to our survival and reproduction.
Over the span of our lives we are involved continuously in interpersonal relationships that sustain, enhance, and give meaning to our existence. As infants we depend physically and emotionally on adult caregivers. As children we learn to get along with others and to abide by the rules and norms of society. As adolescents we begin to explore romantic relationships and, in other ways, seek niches in the adult world. As adults we assume responsibility for the care and support of others and contribute, through work, to the broader society.
Social development refers to the changing nature of our relationships with others over the course of life. What characterizes our ties to other people at each phase of life? How do those relationships promote our survival and influence our subsequent development? How variable is social development from culture to culture and between males and females? These are some of the principal questions of this chapter, which begins with infancy and then proceeds, section by section, through childhood, adolescence, and adulthood.